Desktop Wallpapers : August

I just realized that I totally forgot to post wallpapers for July! Here they are in case you want one without the calendar.

Good thing I caught August before it whizzed by!

My favorite (and chosen) wallpaper this month is the memory design mainly for it's vintage colouring and the essence of world-travel.

What's your favorite?

Ready! Aim...Aim...Aim...Aim...Aim...Fire!

Have you ever heard of the phrase: Ready, Aim, Fire?
Of course you have! But I'm not talking about firearms here.

*Story time!*

For most of my creative career (all 5 years of full and part-time experience) I thought I had this ready, aim, fire theory down-pat. If I sought a new job, I went for it without a second thought. This pattern repeated for some years until I realized it wasn't working. The jobs I was landing weren't what I thought they were and I wasn't learning anything new. I was spinning in circles thinking there had to be something wrong with the system or (heaven-forbid) ME!


I went for a short business meeting with an extremely sweet lady who told me that I had the fire, but not the "ready, aim". I had only been sitting with her for less than an hour and she knew more about me than I did! She also reminded me of a book I once read which talked about the "Ready, Aim, Fire" concept.

After digesting her words, I realized that my impatience had got the better of me without even realizing it; I was firing at random hoping that I would hit my target but in the end, I hit everything BUT.

Lately I've been somewhat experimental in trying to see what would happen if I waited things out and let go of expectations. So far it's been really eye-opening to repel every instinctual thought and programmed response I have ever known. The reactions I get from others are even more positive and my results are far better than they have been in the past. Sure my impatience still nags at me, but it's becoming more like a whisper.

I like this new patient me...

The Eternal Optimist

I find the current state of television shows depressing, exploitative, and not entertaining at all. To name a few that really fit this profile: Toddler's and Tiara's, Paris Hilton: My New BFF, and every news channel there is.

What will networks think of next to get viewers to tune in? Is there any hope?

I sometimes wondered what would happen if a society was overwhelmed with positive media for a week instead of another murder, another kidnapping, more crooked politicians?

Would people watching or reading be less interested? Or would they be less depressed and become more helpful and hopeful?

A favorite actor of mine, Michael J. Fox, filmed a documentary on optimism that I couldn't have been happier to come across tonight. Alright so I'm like 2 months later than the rest of the world, but I'm not much of a tv-watcher to begin with so I'm surprised I came across it THIS soon *LOL* It's titled "The Adventures of An Incurable Optimist".

I was especially intrigued by his visit to Bhutan, a Buddhist society that values joy in everyday, mundane activities. In 2006, Business Week magazine rated Bhutan the happiest country in Asia and the eighth-happiest in the world, according to Wikipedia.

Sounds like a great place find some optimism. That's my kinda place!

But it wasn't just his visit to Bhutan or his interview with Lance Armstrong or his research into the genetic roots of optimism that got me; It was his journey, his experiences, his wisdom, his subtle humor about life, and ultimately his optimism that made me want more. It inspired me to become more optimistic myself and also be more accepting of who I am flaws, failures, and all.

Some that know me may tell you I can't get any more optimistic but like a true optimist I would say "There's always room for growth and improvement".

So thank you TLC, A&E, ABC, and every other network broadcast this special. We need more of these!

My gratitude also goes out to Mr. Michael J. Fox for filming this documentary. You are my new muse. Next book on my "to read" list: his book.